"The greatest thing you will ever learn is just to love and be loved in return" (Moulin Rouge, 2001) The society is build around many relations, the relationships between people varies, the relationships are from biological relations or other relations like relations between friends, neighbors and colleagues etc. Sharing compliments with loved ones is very good gesture, it increases love and helps in keeping relationship healthy. Compliments with loved ones can be shared in different ways, it can be by saying some words of appreciations, or it can be in the form of some gift or greeting card. Every way has its respective impact on the emotions of person receiving compliments. While sharing compliments with loved ones, it is necessary to share them in possible ways to express love and emotions.
Appreciation with words
The relationships between loved ones like husband and wife; parents and children and brother and sister are very binding and sharing compliments with them does not require, expensive gifts, the simple words of compliments said with true heart worth more than most expensive item, when it comes to complimenting loved ones. Don't hesitate or be shy on giving compliments to the loved ones and give compliments more often with words it shows others about how much they are loved, cared and valued. Saying someone thank you or saying some one about how good he/she is looking or how good work him/her has done can make a long-lasting impact and it will create stronger emotional bonding. Human is social animal and everyone likes to be complemented and pampered, and the key to lead a happy life is to have healthy relationship with others especially with loved ones. And the key to keep healthy relationships with loved ones is to compliment them more often. And the compliments with words is very effective, complimenting loved ones more often with words is the key of keeping loved ones close. Life is short and it should be spend by spreading love, and the best way of spreading love is to give compliments and gifts more often.
Gifts as Compliments
Everyone loves to receive gifts, giving and receiving gifts is very old tradition and like many other traditions, it has been kept alive. It is very friendly gesture and it increases the love and bonding between two people. Giving gifts to love on different occasions like birthdays and anniversaries is very common and it is liked equally in every culture. But to maintain a very healthy and good relationship with the loved ones, giving gifts requires no occasion, it can be given at any time and in any form, the gifts given to loved ones other than special occasions creates better impact, but it does not mean that gifts should not be given at special occasions, it means that gifts should be given at special occasions and without any occasions as well.
Compliments with expressions
Body language is very important in communication, and it creates impact on the message delivered, while sharing compliments, the body language plays a key role. Giving compliments with expressions means that showing other through gestures and expressions that how much he/she is being valued and loved. Smiling at someone to show love is very great; smile is the best compliment one can share with someone, smile can deliver thousands of unsaid words so smiling lovingly at someone is a great way to show love and affection. As the years are passing, the world is becoming materialistic and people tend to care about tangible things more than the emotions and gestures, the relationships are also becoming materialistic and the greed and self-indulgence have made some of the dearest relations hollow. In this materialistic and selfish society, it is very important to love others selflessly. Sharing compliments with each other by gifts or expressions is what makes a true loving relation, and true loving relations make a good society.
Graduate in Public Administration.
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